WHY THE NEED TO REACH MEN?
For every 10 men in the average church.......
8 will not find their jobs satisfying or rewarding
6 will struggle with excessive debt
5 have a major problem with pornography
4 will get divorced affecting 1,000,000 children each year
Only 1 will have a biblical worldview
All 10 will struggle to balance family & work
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If you take virtually every problem in America today, at the root of it you will find the failure of a man (e.g. 93% of prisoners are male and 85% of these come from fatherless homes). Today there are approximately 98,000,000 men in America, 63,000,000 of which don't know Christ. Only 8,000,000 of these are active in discipleship. This would be the equivalent of 12 guys playing on a football team and only 1 of them knowing how to play football.
Want your church to grow? Then bring in the men
Did you know that if a child is the first person in a household to become a Christian, there is a 3.5 percent probability everyone else in the household will follow? If the mother is the first to become a Christian, there is a 17 percent probability everyone else in the household will follow. But if the father is first, there is a 93 percent probability everyone else in the household will follow.
I doubt that comes as a great surprise to most people, we don't have to have statistics to tell us this is true. There is something in the hard-wiring of creation that naturally causes wives and children to look to husbands and fathers to lead. However, the statistics above shout the importance of churches becoming more intentional in their development of ministries for men. If you reach the men, you reach the families, but to reach the men, you have to enter into their world.
You can lead this effort by identifying at least one man in your church committed to developing a men's ministry, and then communicate your needs to help provide training and resources to equip this leader and assist him in forming a core group of men for men's ministry. Having the pastor behind a men's ministry program is crucial, men will see it as important only if the pastor supports it.
WHY THE NEED TO REACH MEN?
For every 10 men in the average church.......
8 will not find their jobs satisfying or rewarding
6 will struggle with excessive debt
5 have a major problem with pornography
4 will get divorced affecting 1,000,000 children each year
Only 1 will have a biblical worldview
All 10 will struggle to balance family & work
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If you take virtually every problem in America today, at the root of it you will find the failure of a man (e.g. 93% of prisoners are male and 85% of these come from fatherless homes). Today there are approximately 98,000,000 men in America, 63,000,000 of which don't know Christ. Only 8,000,000 of these are active in discipleship. This would be the equivalent of 12 guys playing on a football team and only 1 of them knowing how to play football.
Want your church to grow? Then bring in the men
Did you know that if a child is the first person in a household to become a Christian, there is a 3.5 percent probability everyone else in the household will follow? If the mother is the first to become a Christian, there is a 17 percent probability everyone else in the household will follow. But if the father is first, there is a 93 percent probability everyone else in the household will follow.
I doubt that comes as a great surprise to most people, we don't have to have statistics to tell us this is true. There is something in the hard-wiring of creation that naturally causes wives and children to look to husbands and fathers to lead. However, the statistics above shout the importance of churches becoming more intentional in their development of ministries for men. If you reach the men, you reach the families, but to reach the men, you have to enter into their world.
You can lead this effort by identifying at least one man in your church committed to developing a men's ministry, and then communicate your needs to help provide training and resources to equip this leader and assist him in forming a core group of men for men's ministry. Having the pastor behind a men's ministry program is crucial, men will see it as important only if the pastor supports it.